Monday, September 7, 2009

Marriage Monday: Love

I wondered if the Lord would give me something to share today, and as I read this devotional out of Springs in the Valley, I felt it was perfect for Marriage Monday. I feel the truth revealed in this story would work on any hardened heart or strained relationship. I have often thought of this concept being used on one of my children at a difficult stage, but today, let's think of our husbands, and winning them with love.
"The greatest of these is love." (1 Corinthians 13:13)
"I'll master it!" said the axe; and his blows fell heavily on the iron. And every blow made his edge more blunt till he ceased to strike.
"Leave it to me!" said the saw; and with his relentless teeth he worked backward and forward on its surface till his teeth were worn down and broken, and he fell aside.
"Ha, ha!" said the hammer, "I knew you wouldn't succeed! I'll show you the way!" But at the first fierce stroke off flew his head, and the iron remained as before.
"Shall I try?" asked the still, small flame.
They all despised the flame, but he curled gently around the iron and embraced it, and never left it till it melted under his irresistible influence.
Hard indeed is the heart that can resist love.
"And now abideth faith, hope, love. . . the greatest of these is love."
(Springs in the Valley, compilied by Mrs. Charles E. Cowman)
I so can see myself in the axe, the saw and the hammer! Trying with all my might to soften the hardened heart or change the situation. How much more effective to 'curl gently around and embrace. . .until it melted under the irristible influence'?
Lord Jesus, thank You for Your love that has been shed abroad in our hearts. By Your grace, enable us to love those around us, especially our husbands.

3 comments:

Connie said...

So good! As I have gotten older, I have seen how much more effect a loving approach is - the results are better and we do not do so much damage in the process.

Valencia said...

Beautifully put!! I need to continue to learn from ladies, who have been there, done that.

Camille said...

A wonderful reminder...may the Lord help us each to be like that little flame! :)