Once you have repented and removed a spirit of rejection the only thing that will keep you out of bondage and walking in ever increasing victory is the renewal of your mind.
It does no good to remove the spirit of rejection and continue on with the stinkin’ thinkin’ that got you there in the first place. Now that you have begun to recognize the lies from the enemy the real work begins. You must begin to discern your thoughts.
For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ; (2 Cor. 10:3-5)
You have to use the Word of God as your measuring stick.
For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. (Heb. 4:12)
I am going to give you the references to some scripture that has really blessed me as I walk this out. Reading, meditating on, writing out the Truth is what will renew your mind. I have recently been using the S.O.A.P method to studying scripture. It has been so beneficial. Are you familiar with it? It is worth checking out.
Psalm 139:1-18 (Memorize this! It is so good)
2 Corinthians 5:17-21
There are so many scriptures that will personally speak to your heart. Be on the look out for ones that speak of the Father’s love and acceptance, or who you are in Him. The Holy Spirit will begin to show you which ones speak to your heart.